Guest Post:
Strangely enough, when summer approaches the first emotion I feel is anxiety. Why is this? Expectations. During summer you’re expected to feel happy and free, but life doesn’t always allow for this. What if you’re broke and can’t afford new summer clothes? Gasp! Or what if it’s so hot and bright that all you want to do is stumble around looking for a sprinkler and a place that sells sunglasses? I guess worse things can happen. But come summer time, I like to set out a few achievable goals that I can accomplish by the end of August that will give some color and shape to an otherwise chaotic season. With that in mind, here are my three goals for this summer:
Go to at least one new city.
I think this is a very modest travel itinerary. Most people plan entire nation-hopping, jet-setting global expeditions for the summer. I just want to see one new place and preferably one with some good seafood. Something about summer just screams shellfish and white wine to me.
Finish one ambitious project.
The approach of summer has a way of inciting a windfall of unrealistic goals. ‘I’m going to write that novel I’ve been putting off for five years! And I’m going to create a webpage, learn French, get an online degree, get in shape, get a tan!’ It’s too much. Summer is three months, 90 days. That’s about time to enjoy yourself, relax and leisurely complete one solid project.
Finally adhere to an exercise regimen.
Every summer I tell myself the same thing: this is the summer I’m going to work out everyday. Every year it’s a lie. This year it will be a lie again. Why? Because I’m not going to set another unrealistic expectation. I’m going to work out a lot, several times a week. But not everyday. A few runs on the beach, maybe a couple yoga classes, a jaunt at the gym. But, no, I’m going to spend the summer training for a Strongest Woman contest.
So there are my plans for the summer. They may not be the most ambitious blueprints for an easy-going three months, but I am reasonably confident that at the end of August I will feel both refreshed and productive. And that’s exactly how you want to feel when the leaves start falling in autumn.















